Thursday, September 22, 2011

Facing Child Who Always Lied

When viewed from the type, lying behavior in children can be differentiated in some form, namely:

Simple reversals of truth
In this behavior, children tends to say that he was doing his job, but in reality the task is not done.

Fabrications
In this behavior can be exemplified, telling the child something that never happened, or a child tells an exaggerated reality.

Wrong accusations
Who belong to this category is the child to blame others for mistakes made ​​by him. These kids lie to defend himself, denies his mistakes. There is also that mimics the behavior of others, lie to be accepted by a peer group, or even to make himself look good in front of others.

Tips to face children who lie:
1. Teach moral values ​​prevailing in the environment through short stories that can be easily understood and remembered by your children.

2. Give feedback on the impact of the behavior of your child lying to himself and others.

3. Explain to your child about how you know for sure when he lied, so your child will realize his actions and trying to not repeat it again.

4. Find out the causes why your child is lying, whether he was wanted to get the attention of others or to avoid embarrassment or to avoid punishment, and so forth in order to prevent the emergence behavior of children in the future lie.

Hopefully what we have written above can be useful and can add to your knowledge as parents in educating children.

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