6 Characteristics of Children with Problems

Actually there are 6 characteristics of children with problems. Enough with we see from his behavior, then we are able to do early detection of "big disaster" future life upcoming (read: more mature) and eventually can make improvements.

Characteristics of children with problems can be known as follows:
1. Unruly and cooperative
The most of appears the children always rebellious. Acting own way, in this phase the children are eager to hold control. Began there was a "rebellion" from within him. Things we can do is understand and we should respond with the calm emotional state.

2. Less open to the Parents
When parents ask "What about school?" The child answered, "ordinary course", replied with a lazy, But strangely at her friend she was so open. At this stage of parent figure replaced with others (friends, class president, etc.). When this happens, parents should be introspective and begin replacing patterns of approach.


3. Responding to something with a negative

When the child begins commented "Leave him alone, he's really ugly", is a sign Self-esteem of children the were injured. Low  Self-esteem,one way to go up to a higher place is to find a foothold. Same time our Self-esteem is low, the easiest way to raise our of pride is by criticizing others.And the children were already trained to do that, be careful of this. Self-esteem is the key to success in the child's future.


4. Pull away
When children are accustomed and Alone, preoccupied with his own world, he does not want others to know about him (pull away). In this condition we as parents should immediately take different approaches attempt.In this condition children usually feels like to be accepted as it is, understood deeply.


5. Resent the fact
Ever heard a quote like "I am not a smart person, I was stupid," "I can not, I'm a fool".
And usually the case (resent the fact) come from the wrong discipline process. Example: "Doing things simply you can not, when it was mama give examples repeatedly".


6. Being a comedian
There are events that when his friends laughed of  his attitude,child feel happy. If this happens once in a while might not be a problem, but if he repeatedly sought to gain recognition and acceptance from his friends then we as parents hope vigilant. Because the child did not get a sense of acceptable home, then where are the parents?