A crying child; How to Overcome With a Crying Child

A crying child is fair, but sometimes we often see in shopping malls or public areas, a child bawl just because they want buy toys or want something. We often also see thechildren often beat their parents or guardians, be a coward, a liar, whiny and others. This happens partly because we often use the wrong way in overcoming the child when crying.


This mistake often done by parents, caregivers or other adults intentionally or unintentionally when a child overcome the crying. Most of them often take on how "easy" or telling to calm the child to stop crying. In fact the way of "easy and telling" it was even more damaging mentally and mindset of the child, making him have a nature whiny, coward, liar, rude and other bad characteristics.


A crying child is medically is good, then when the children cry, we must remain calmly, keep the emotion, and should quickly find out the reason or cause why the child cried. When she cried because of pain or sadness, we may calm the him with gentleness, cuddled or stroked. But if the child is crying because of anger, sleepiness, or wants a toy, then we have to calm the them with a firm and authoritative tone of voice.


Keep your emotions in us not to issue a high voice that explodes much less angry. If their cries are not subside, then we should give sanctions such as the strap, forbidden to play, or allowed to alone until tired.


It is sometimes difficult and disturbing, but we must courage, patiently and have the heart to do so for growth and the psychological mindset of the child. The intensity of the firm and authoritative tone we too must balanced by the tone of the child's crying. For example, if the child cries began to subside, then the tone of voice we too must begin to soften. Never too much, because it will make us even less authority. Do not ever issued a harsh words or a negative.


If this is done early, then it will be shorter time that we need to establish the mindset nature of the child who did not whiny, instead we only apply this when the child was 3 years old.


There are four things that I thought should never be done in calm the a child when crying. But ironically these four things that is often done by parents or caregivers of children.There are four things that I thought should never be done in calm the a child when crying. But ironically these four things that is often done by parents or caregivers of children.
Four things are: indulgent, deceive, threaten and hit.