Having attitude like a baby to a toddler is normal, it's even healthy. Your toddler tail to you and whining to beg fed is the way of toddler to overcome his stress while growing be bigger. This will probably make you dizzy but it's actually quite easy to understand his emotions and how to handle your child.
Every transition can disrupt children's ability to control her self and make her anxious. even small change such as vacation, can make he behave like a baby. Why is that? because toddlers can not express his feelings, and beside that, she can not yet develop the ability to solve problems. So the strategy is will into objects that can make them feel comfortable, like a blanket or pacifier.
Sometimes just because of the flu, a toddler will whine like a baby. Changes that often occur when is the presence of a younger brother. Anxiety about the competition to compete the attention of parents can make toddlers out of control. So he will be acting like a baby to get his parent's attention.
Sometimes there is not special thing that encourage toddlers to behave like a baby. children can behave like that just because of the fact that he is growing. When you feel proud to their ability that rapidly growing, all of her new knowledge and skill can make them happy.
On the other side of her panic indicates that the cognitive ability of children will better. Child's imagination will expand along with their growing. That is why children who are usually calm with a nanny will hang down on your feet when you will go. He had guessed what would happen if you go . Even he can make a creepy scenario about what would happen if you will not return.
When you see the fact that your child is behaving like that, then you should do is:
1. understanding that feelings
So you find the cause of the child behaving like a baby, let him know that you understand her feelings
2. Allow he (though just briefly)
Let the child to behave like his will for a few minutes a day. Children will find a way to convince them that you care about him.
3. Give more attention
If he always went up on your lap and then force you to play with him, give attention toas he wanted. This is important, especially when he jealous of her sister.
4. Do not criticize
Given the child's behavior just to get attention, so if you are angry, your child will actually behave worse. It will only make the child more stress and make him more boyish.
5. Praise him when he behaved like a brother
This needs to be done, so he feels no need to act like a baby.
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